How to Woo a Ghanaian Lady – Part 1: Getting Her Attention Naturally
My name is Kobby. I won’t claim to be a master of playing mind games with women, but if you’re truly interested in getting a Ghanaian woman’s attention, I can definitely point you in the right direction—if you’re willing to listen.
First of all, don’t overthink it.
Speaking to the heart of a Ghanaian woman isn’t like solving a complicated math problem—there’s no fixed formula. Women, especially Ghanaian women, are not looking for perfection or poetry right out of your mouth. What they truly value is genuine confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor.
Don’t Start With Compliments
Avoid opening with typical compliments like “You’re beautiful” or “I like your shape.” That’s too common and often feels forced. Instead, take a moment to observe. Pay attention to her body language, mood, and what she’s doing. Your first words matter—they’ll determine whether she warms up to you or tunes you out completely.
Make Her Smile – But Make Her Think First
Every woman enjoys comfort. Everyone, regardless of gender, wants to be around someone who can make them laugh. So instead of cheesy lines, be jovial and clever—make her think, then smile.
Let me give you a scenario:
Imagine you’re at the beach. You spot a lady sitting alone, sipping a drink. She’s relaxed, enjoying her moment. Don’t just walk over and drop compliments—be smart about your approach.
You could say something like:
“Hi, I’m not sorry to bother you—but is that drink as good as it looks? I’ve been staring at the menu for ages and I’m still confused on what to order.”
Now, depending on how you deliver it (tone matters!), she might laugh. Most Ghanaian women are not book-smart in the cliché academic sense, but they’re emotionally sharp—they pick up on subtle confidence, humor, and energy. That playful question shows interest without pressure, and she may just smile and respond.
Take Control of the Moment – Smoothly
Once the conversation starts, own the situation. Let her see that you’re in control—but not arrogant. For example, if she says she’s enjoying her drink and having a great time, you could respond:
“Then it’s not fair that you’re enjoying all that alone. I came here to have a good time too, so I guess I’ll be joining you. Mind shifting over a bit?”
That’s bold—but still respectful. If you’ve set the tone right, she’ll likely move over and let you sit beside her. It’s about making her feel like you’re not just approaching her for attention—but because you want to share a good vibe.